
5 Ways To Spot A Liar
Hear the Voices
How can we spot the lies we’re told,
both the little white ones that don’t
matter a whole lot and the real whoppers
that do? Try these compelling
tips from the experts.
Ever notice the
pitch of someone’s voice change from
its norm? Hear a voice crack when it
isn’t the cracking type? Pay attention
to voice changes like these; they may
well indicate deceit.
When Paul Ekman teamed with
Maureen O’Sullivan, professor of psychology
at the University of San Francisco,
to test 509 people for their
ability to spot liars, the results were
telling. The group included Secret
Service, CIA and FBI personnel, as well
as psychiatrists and college students.
They were shown a videotape of ten
individuals who were either lying or
telling the truth. On the tape, one woman described
the lovely flowers she was supposedly
looking at. Though she was smiling
as she spoke, a few keen observers detected
an odd hesitation in her voice.
Her words lacked joy, and her hands
seemed tense, not relaxed. One of the Secret Service agents labeled her a liar,
and he was right. She wasn’t looking
at flowers at all, but rather at a graphic
film the evaluators were showing.
(The Secret Service employees, by the
way, nailed the liars 86 percent of the
time, better than others in the group.)
Though other important behaviors
need to be considered as well, vocal
changes that deviate from the norm
can indicate deception. “There may
also be a change in speech rate, either
too fast or too slow, and a change
in breathing pattern,” says O’Sullivan.
Watch Those Words
How about
written material? Can we spot misleading
behavior in letters, documents,
e-mails and even résumés?
At the University of Texas at Austin,
psychology professor James Pennebaker
and colleagues have developed
computer software known as
Linguistic Inquiry and Word Count
(LIWC), which analyzes written and
verbal content for lies. Deception can
reveal itself in two significant ways,
explains Pennebaker.
First, liars tend to use fewer firstperson
pronouns—words like I, me,
mine—than truth tellers. It’s as if
they’re putting psychological distance
between themselves and their stories;
they don’t “own” their message. “The
paperwork was sent yesterday” is an
example, as opposed to the direct and
personal “I sent it yesterday.” Second,
liars use fewer exclusionary words—
but, nor, except, whereas. They have
trouble with complex thinking, says
Pennebaker, and it shows.
Look Past Shifty Eyes
While most
people tend to interpret darting, unfocused
eyes as a classic sign of lying,
what’s vital to consider is the context
of the behavior. (Experienced poker
players, of course, are careful not to
make too much of eye “tells.”)
“If people look away while trying
to think of something difficult, that is
not important,” says O’Sullivan. “But
if they look away while answering
something that should be easy to answer,
you should wonder why.”
And what is the conversation about,
anyway? The subject matter is critical.
“If people are lying about something
they’re ashamed of, they’ll have
difficulty maintaining eye gaze,” notes
O’Sullivan. “For white lies, though, or
lies that aren’t shameful, people may
actually increase their eye gaze.”
Get Batter At Body Language
No
single part of the face or body, such
as the eyes, nose, ears or hands, can
tell us the whole story when it comes
to lying. It’s not that simple. “There
is no Pinocchio’s nose,” says Ekman
flatly. Instead, “you must consider
the fit among face, body, voice
and speech to reach high levels of
accuracy.”
That means observing the “total
person” whenever possible. “Clues
must always be interpreted in light of
the usual behavior,” explains O’Sullivan.
“Changes in small hand movements,
changes in the amount of hand
gestures, shrugs that are inconsistent
with what’s being said”—these are
worth homing in on, she suggests. So are changes in body posture at particular
points in a conversation.
Watch for “a change in the baseline,”
says O’Sullivan. “For instance,
a quiet person who talks a lot, or a
person who talks a lot who is now
quiet. It doesn’t necessarily mean
someone’s lying, but it’s a hot spot to
evaluate.”
Check For Emotional "leaks"
The
micro-expressions that flit across people’s
faces often expose what they’re
truly feeling or thinking, as opposed to
what they’d like us to believe, explains
Ekman. But these ultra-brief facial
movements, some lasting a quarter of
a second, aren’t a cinch to spot. Even
professionals trained in the art of lie
detection—police personnel, judges,
attorneys—can’t always isolate them.
And deliberate liars tend to layer on
other expressions, like smiling, to further
disguise a lie.
Still, there are giveaways. “It isn’t
the frequency of a smile that matters,
but the type of smile,” says Ekman.
“There are smiles of true enjoyment,
which involve not just the lips but the
muscles that orbit the eyes. And there
are masking smiles, which are made to
cover fear, anger, sadness or disgust.
If you’re a good observer, you can see
a trace of one of those emotions leak
through.”
So here’s hoping the next time
someone lobs a lie our way, we’ll know
just how to catch it.
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From RD.COM
By NANCY LONG TAFOYA
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